i asked my friend, how to handle a broken heart. she gave me some good tips and i want to share 'em with you guys. *if only there's someone who read my blog*
listen to the sad songs for couple of weeks.
to be honest, i don't practice it because i randomly love any songs that catch my ears. mostly, i choose the songs based on their lyrics. and rarely follow nowadays top songs. but here, some songs that maybe can be called as sad songs and you guys might want to listen to.
jason mraz - i won't give up
muse - unintended
plain white t's - a lonely september
mayday parade - miserable at best
mayday parade - i swear this time i mean it
mayday parade - stay
new found glory - on my mind
keane - somewhere only we know
keane - nothing in my way
him - gone with the sins
so yeah, i don't know if we can call those songs as "sad songs" but they are what i love the most *not all the time* we move to the second tip. she told me to do anything that makes me happy. since i love to bake, the day after i baked some cupcakes. it really helps me to forget about my broken heart for a while and plastered it with my yellow buttercream. kikikiki i think it is good for us to have a lot of hobbies during our session to handle a broken heart. girls, shopping may heals so save some bucks! *i rarely do shopping. always spend hundreds for books. no jokes*
the next tip is, avoid yourself from contacting him/her. don't tweet, don't IM, don't Line, don't SMS. Don't do anything. i already deleted his contact number(s) from my list. i've stopped Line, SMS, tweet or anything with him. we rarely contact for now. i feel sorry to him, but i know this time i must be serious. it is because i don't want to let my heart get broken even more. and and, i don't want to give hopes to myself. i'm easily fall that's why i have to guard myself.
but here's a problem. what if he contacts me first(?) should i ignore him or act like nothing happened? at this point, i replied him with a cold-hearted words. am i sound so cruel? gahh i don't want him to be depressed. i don't want things get worse. but i want to avoid myself to contact him. hey brotha, i'm so sorry. :|
@adibahnoor tweet - it may take years..... some people never healed.
it suited me, DEFINITELY. after years, the feelings never left. oh please help me. i'm dying. mentally.
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